The word Life itself speaks for itself, it tell’s you a tale of never ending stories. Some beautiful, some wonderful, some we remember for the rest of our lives, some which we don’t, some which give us nightmares, some that haunt us every moment, and then there are some which we are in even at the moment, some which we would never like to talk about , some which don’t allow us to even live normal live, yet we go on crossing hurdles all the time, bearing up with situations, compromising, sacrificing and trying to live.
What we never have realized however is how much of the situation are we responsible for ? How much have we done to improve the quality of our lives? Have we ever stopped for a brief moment and ponder over these phases of life? We never , we never do , in fact we ignore things to the extent that by the time a situation reaches its optimum height, it much to late for anything to be done about the entire episode. We never use opportunities that come our way, to turn situations around, in fact we would rather crib about how the entire world of ours has gone from bad to worse, Topsy turvy, stressful,miserable etc. But I once again come back to the same question ” Why didn’t you ever do anything about improving a situation? I’m sure that decisions that are taken in most circumstances are self-made decisions. Very few personal decisions are manipulated or instigated which leaves, just you and the problem. So the point here is to start today, start working on the problem and make yourself happier with Life.
I would like to emphasize a lot on the word’s, initiative,effort and determination. The first one ,Initiative is the most important because without a decision in place, there is fairly very little that you can expect as a result. A result is nothing but the fruit of initiative, so if we get back to the beginning , we are able to draw conclusions that, initiative is a point of no return, stepping into the circle, could obviously make you a part of the process which defines your tomorrow. Now how nice would it be to have all the good things in life happen for you, but yet again it all depends on the initial initiative that you put in to see a change.Its human behavior that everyone is for himself, so having less expectations from others and working on your ambitions is what would get you where you want to get.Making oneself self-independent , self reliant and building up an aura of self-confidence are the values that can be incorporated to attain personal happiness and joy in life.
Wen we talk of effort , we speak of carrying out a task without breaks until its complete, now that’s effort. Lacking confidence and motivation would deprive you of a vision and that leads to failure, or a result that is either incomplete or a result that is unsatisfactory. The Golden rule we should follow is putting in the required effort to achieve a desired result.Now ignorant of the fact whether the result is one that you expect or desire, it still teaches us a lot. Man somehow learns something new every day of his life, the learning process would never be a highway free of debris. Challenges are a part of the effort process, but the secret of gaining from effort is to look at it from a positive aspect, because negatives of situations at any given time overtake the positives, so it really would depend on how you take your efforts forward
When talking of determination , that’s something we all lack. We either don’t have it or we just don’t use it even if we do possess it.What matters is how serious are you about getting where you want to. Bear in mind the attitude you shelter in mind and the goal that is your ambition, because clear thoughts would help you determine your determination.